Haiti, Here We Come!


It is hard to believe that our trip to Haiti is almost here. It seems like it was just the other day when we were praying and deciding if we should do this, and now we are putting the final touches on our trip. This past weekend, we spent some shopping for gifts. We got our sponsored child a backpack, pencils, soaps, toothbrushes, toothpaste, a jump rope, a stuffed animal, notebooks, towels, a jewelry-making kit, a Bible, and several other things. We may have went overboard, but it is hard to hold back.

As I’ve said before, this trip is sort of surreal for me. I have been sponsoring this little girl since 2002, which means it has almost been 13 years of communication through letters and photos. My wife became a co-sponsor with me once we were married in 2009, and she has fallen in love with her, too. However, this will be the first time we actually meet her in person. Up until now, she has merely been a name and a face in a photo, but very soon, she will be incredibly real to us.

To be honest, this makes me both excited and nervous at the same time. I am excited to meet her, see what she is like, and witness what Compassion does in the developing country of Haiti. In contrast, I am also nervous to meet her. I have a ton of experience working with teenagers, but for some reason, this is different. I hope I know what to say. I hope she likes us. Of course, we are praying that God will lead us, but I would be lying if I told you I was not anxious at all.

As we get ready to leave soon, I ask that you keep our trip in your prayers, too. Speaking of prayer, we thank God for all of you who are contributing to this trip – including finances, prayers, and other support. We really appreciate it! We do not know if we will be able to provide many updates while we are there (if any at all), but rest assured, I will be blogging about our experience when we get back.

I Really Like Our 8-Bit Mario and Peach Pumpkins

Each year, my wife and I try to have fun with our pumpkin designs. Last year, I cut a Super Mushroom design in my jack-o’-lantern. This past weekend, we went to a friend’s house, who is known for her painted pumpkins. After some serious thought, we went with an 8-bit style Raccoon Mario and Peach. Our friend graciously took our ideas, drew them, and instructed us how to paint them. Here is the final product, which make me very happy, especially since I am not an artist at all. But with her help, I actually pulled it off.

YM Resource – “Speaking to Teenagers” Book

speaking-to-teenagersA couple years ago, I went to a seminar/workshop with Doug Fields and Duffy Robbins. What they spoke about that day was based off their book, Speaking to Teenagers: How to Think About, Create, and Deliver Effective Messages. The tips and methods they use to teach teenagers will help you so much! In fact, each time I develop a lesson or message, I think back to what I learned from Doug and Duffy.

I do not plan on restating everything they mentioned. Instead, I just want to point you in their direction. These are two of my ministry mentors. I have learned so much by reading their books, listening to them speak, and watching them in ministry from afar. If you have a chance, you should get this book! In fact, at the time I’m writing this, Amazon has it on sale for only $2.99 (on Kindle)! Just to put that into perspective, it is usually $18.99.


Spending Time with God

This afternoon, I spent some time relaxing by the lake, reflecting on a question I’m often asked by adults and students about how to grow in relationship with God. Here’s a video I took while I was there.


Are you Going to the Orange Conference 2015?


Over the past few years, I’ve had the privilege of attending three Orange Conferences. Each time, I’ve grown in my understanding of how to do ministry even better for God’s kingdom. One of the cool things about Orange is that you can bring your entire staff. This isn’t a conference for just student ministers or children’s ministers. It’s an event for preachers, small group leaders, worship ministers, and elders too. This is especially important, because to do family ministry well, it is my belief that the entire church leadership needs to be on the same page.

If you’re free April 29 through May 1, you should definitely consider heading to Atlanta for the Orange Conference 2015. In fact, if you want to buy your ticket today, you can save $80 on your ticket! To take advantage of this, head to http://www.theorangeconference.com, and reserve your spot right away. If you miss this opportunity, I would still encourage you to consider the conference.

Want to see what this whole Orange Conference thing is all about? Check out this video recap of the 2014 conference.

Making Family Ministry Simpler

IMG_0358-0.JPGOver the past 10 years, I have had my idea of student ministry shifted. It all started when I began my first ministry, which was actually closer to 11 years ago. I led the middle school and high school youth groups at a small rural church in Illinois. I spent a lot of my time with the teens. Then, I moved onto my next church through an internship that turned into a resident ministry. During that time, I saw another way of doing ministry, where my mentor spent more and more time with his adult youth leaders and a select number of student leaders.

During my internship, I also read Mark DeVries’ book, Family-Based Youth Ministry, where I learned that I needed to also communicate with parents. So, in addition to discipling teens, I tried to make it a point to include parents on what we were doing. Not too long after I started my current ministry at Rockingham Christian Church, I learned of the “Orange” philosophy of family ministry, which essentially says that the church needs to partner with parents. So, I started trying to equip parents to be the spiritual leaders for their kids. Then, our ministry came across things like Legacy Milestones, where we help parents prepare for upcoming milestones by training them along the way. Needless to say, the way I think about student ministry now is very different than it was over 10 years ago.

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Communicate Better with Parents and Leaders with GoWeekly and LeadSmall

Hey, fellow student ministers. Are you looking for a way to communicate with your ministry leaders and small group leaders? Maybe you’re in need of a better plan to keep parents connected to your ministry. Would you like a plan presented to you each week, which makes it easy to follow along? Let me share a brand new resource with you from Orange. It’s called GoWeekly, and it’s FREE.

On top of GoWeekly, you can also access the FREE “Lead Small” smart phone app (iPhone and Android), which allows you to help your leaders be even more prepared. If you are following along with Orange’s curriculum plan (First Look, 252 Basics, or XP3), then this will be huge for you and your team. If you need to customize it, you can do that for a nominal monthly fee.

Lead Small App Video from Orange on Vimeo.

For more information about these resources, check out http://GoWeekly.com.

What We’re Doing in Haiti


A lot of people have been asking what our itinerary will be like when we are in Haiti with Compassion International, visiting our sponsored child. Much of our trip will consist of checking our Compassion’s ministry firsthand, serving alongside them at their facilities, and seeing our little girl.

For a bit more information, here is the basic itinerary that Compassion gave us:

Day 1: Starting the Adventure
Our domestic travel is completed and we are in the Miami International Airport ready to get this adventure started. Midafternoon our American Airlines plane takes off and we are filled with wonder. Wonder about all we will see and experience and how God will use it. Our short flight is completed as we land in Port-au-Prince. Yes, we’re actually in Haiti! Loading luggage on the van, we board our bus for transfer to the hotel. Check in completed and time to settle in our rooms. During dinner, we have orientation and welcome to the country.

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How to Make Your Church a Place Where Kids Belong

CreatingALeadSmallCulture_OrangeBooksMuch of what we do at RCC is centered around what we (and many other churches) call small groups. Even our children’s ministry is designed to be centered around smaller groups of kids with an adult leader. This allows for more growth and processing. How you do you create an environment like this? How do you help all people, kids through adults, feel like they belong? One resource I would recommend is “Creating a Lead Small Culture,” and you can now get it on Orange Books.

My friends over at Orange Books are offering some great deals this week. You can get any of the deals, any day this week, but I really like today’s featured deal:

Buy one copy of the book Creating a Lead Small Culture, and get all of the following:

  • “Transitioning to a Lead Small Culture” (Orange Conference 2014 breakout by Elle Campbell and Kenny Conley, audio file)
  • “Say Yes to a Lead Small Culture” (Orange Conference 2014 breakout by Carey Nieuwhof, audio file)
  • A three-month trial membership to Weekly (an online subscription to empower your small group leaders and parents)
Plus, when you tweet or share on Facebook any of the deals using the hashtag #OrangeBooks, you’ll be entered to win a prize.
Go to OrangeBooks.com to learn more.



5 Things Great Student Pastors Choose to Believe

MakeBelieve_OrangeBooksAbout 13 years ago, I entered into my first youth ministry class at Lincoln Christian College (now University). I learned a lot about student ministry both in the classroom and in practice. I will admit, though, that it was quite overwhelming in the beginning. Several books and mentors helped me think about the basics, but I still found myself drowning in thoughts and ideas. I wish I had a book like “Make Believe” at that time. Ben Crawshaw and Kevin Ragsdale have summarized five things to focus on in order to be a great student pastor, and you can get it today, along with some other great deals!

My friends over at Orange Books are offering some great deals this week. You can get any of the deals, any day this week, but here is today’s featured deal:

Buy one copy of the book Make Believe, and get all of the following:

  • “Make Believe” (Orange Conference 2014 breakout by Ben Crawshaw and Kevin Ragsdale, audio file)
  • “Give the Right Person the Mic” (Jon Acuff, High School Camp 2014, video)
  • A three-month trial membership to Weekly (an online subscription to empower small group leaders and parents)
Plus, when you tweet or share on Facebook any of the deals using the hashtag #OrangeBooks, you’ll be entered to win a prize.
Go to OrangeBooks.com to learn more.