Orange and Upward Partnering Together

Two of my favorite organizations have announced they are officially partnering up for future ministry. Orange, the people behind most the family ministry things I talk about, and Upward, a church-sponsored sports league, will soon be joining forces.

The curriculum writers at Orange will be providing three components of Upwards’ experience – the weekly practice devotions for kids, weekly halftime activities for parents, and end-of-the-season celebration DVD for families to take home. Because of this connection, the emphasis on reaching families for Christ through Upward Sports programs will be greater than ever.

I am very excited about this partnership, as both are excellent organizations! For more information, check out the official press release I have posted below.

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What would you like to hear about this year?

This year, one of my goals is to blog more. This will involve more general things about my life too, because I don’t feel I always have a ton of insight to share about ministry.

The question is, though, what would you like to hear about this year? What types of things do you want me to share? Would you like to hear random things? Would you like more ministry resources? Would you like more personal stories? Would you like more videos/photos? Would you like more tech-related things?

This blog is not only for me to just talk, but I have always wanted it to be somewhere for others to gain something. So, what do you want to hear about this year?

YM Resource – Free eBooks for Youth Ministry

Ever since my wife received her Kindle as a birthday gift last year, I have loved the idea of digital books. In fact, I eventually bought myself one, and we are in the process of trying to figure out how to get all our bookshelves onto these little devices.

Brandon Schmidt over at Youth Pastor Gear has posted a list of several FREE eBooks that you can download for your Kindle, Nook, or any type of eReader. Among them include game ideas, Bible study resources, and theology classics. I’ve already downloaded several of them myself!

Youth Pastor Gear – Free eBooks for Youth Ministry

Happy 3 Year Anniversary to My Amazing Wife!

As I sit here, I cannot believe it was just three years ago when I was waking up with my nerves going crazy. I was rushing to get ready, make sure the church was all right, and making sure all our wedding party knew what they were to do. I never thought that day would come. Previous to that day, it had been extremely difficult for me to see myself married. I do not know why. I think maybe it was a mental block that God put there so I could stay focused on what He wanted at the time. That is my best guess. Finally, though, the day came.

I am so thankful for the woman God placed in my life. She is so thoughtful, kind, encouraging, caring, loving, generous, and — better than all that — she love Jesus more than she loves me. I love that He brought me her as a partner in His Kingdom! It is through her that I started to truly understand the real meaning behind “two becoming one.” It is MUCH more than just a physical thing. It is about our strengths and weaknesses balancing each other. It is about us complementing each other. It is about us making each other a better person. I pray that God allows me to do that for her, because she has definitely done that for me.

I think about all the other couples I know who have made it 30, 40, 50+ years, and I thank God for their example. I pray that we will also be that example to others. In a world where marriage seems so flippant, we need strong examples of what God wants. I know we will not do it perfectly, but I pray that our example is strong — to point others toward a life that is greater. Above all, I pray that if God leads you to marriage, that it would be as good or even better than what we experience!

I love you, Yvette!

Trans-Siberian Orchestra for an Early Birthday Present

You’ve heard me say this on several occasions, but my wife is awesome! This time, she got me tickets to the Trans-Siberian Orchestra this past Sunday. It was for their Christmas tour, and it was amazing! They had a great show. I took several photos and a couple videos. Even though I thought they turned out well, they don’t capture the entire atmosphere of the concert. I strongly encourage you to check out a show if you can!!

“Carol of the Bells”

“Wizards in Winter”

Happy Thanksgiving 2011

The First Thanksgiving Jean Louis Gerome Ferris

This week, giving thanks is on the mind of many Americans. We are not only giving thanks for the many people who helped our country begin with all its freedoms, but we give thanks for those people around us.

As I ponder these things, I am reminded by Paul’s words to the Thessalonians, where he says, “Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” (1 Thess. 5:16-18). What a motto to live by! I wonder what our lives would be like if we truly grasped this and put it into practice every day.

Tonight, I am off to help out with Lazarus House. Each year, the night before Thanksgiving, we join with many others to prepare dinner boxes for needy families in the area. It is an awesome ministry, and I am so glad to be a part of it. Not only that, I am awestruck by the amount of people we have each year from our church. It seems it grows every time, and that is fantastic. Many of them are families coming to serve together. How great is that?!

This year, I would like to urge you all (myself included) to think outside your normal traditional Thanksgiving, and find somewhere to put Paul’s words into practice. Rejoice, pray, and give thanks! This is God’s will for your life. While you are at it, help someone else do the same.

On a personal note, I thank God for all my friends and family. I miss all of you who are not nearby, and I cannot wait to see you again… which will probably be for Christmas!

Equipping Small Group Leaders For Upcoming XP3 Students Series

Equipping and empowering adult small group leaders is the only way to significantly grow a sustainable youth ministry beyond yourself. This is a common thread I have encountered throughout my Bible college years, seminary and at The Orange Conference.

I was asked by XP3 to share my thoughts on how we equip small group leaders at RCC. That blog post was published today.

Head to the XP3 Blog to read it.

Getting Back into Bible Study

Over the past few years here at RCC, I’ve often asked myself what we can do for students who are ready to dive deeper into the Bible. Many times, we recommend that they go through a specific devotional or something, but I also knew they were missing something in the form of studying the Bible together. This summer, God placed the idea of hosting some Bible studies for high school students. Two weeks ago, we started one on the Book of James, and it is going very well. It has been great to dive into the Bible together, walking through it and discussing it along the way.

What I did not expect, though, was how much I would enjoy preparing for each week’s discussion. It has reignited a fire in me that I had not really paid attention to lately. While in college/seminary, I loved studying the Bible, but I had strayed away as of the last couple years. Sure, I read it, but I had not be really diving in as much as I could. I thank God for knowing this ahead of time — that this group was not only going to benefit the students, but it was going to help me as well. That’s so awesome when He does that!

Remembering Steve Jobs, Visionary

Last night, as I sat on my couch, surrounded by my MacBook and iPhone, I watched CNN’s coverage of Steve Jobs’ death. All the while, I was also watching/listening to Leo Laporte’s live podcast and reading about Mr. Jobs on my computer. Not only did I feel like a huge nerd, which I am, but I also couldn’t help but wonder why his life and death affected me so much. On top of that, why was there an overwhelming sense of sadness across the internet?

Steve’s life has been summarized by a few words, but I think the one that people most often stop on is “visionary.” His vision of consumer electronics and computers has been most evident in these last few years. Because of his influence and vision, we have seen a huge advancement in the Mac operating system and we have many new devices in the iPod, iPhone, and iPad. Further, he had a major part in helping Pixar Animation become what it is today. Will we still have advancements in electronics? Sure, but will we miss a great visionary? Yes.

I do wish I would have had the chance to be around Mr. Jobs for just one day. I have read and heard that he was so focused on the task at hand. I do not know if we would have gotten along as good friends, but I do know that I probably would have benefitted from witnessing him work and strategize. To be in the presence of a genius has got to have its advantages, right?

While I do not know if I will see Steve Jobs in Heaven (because I’m not God and I do not make that decision), I do pray for his family. I pray that Christians will come around them and comfort them in their time of loss. Above all, I pray that God will use this situation to glorify Himself. If nothing else, many people are sharing the Gospel message using devices that Mr. Jobs helped create. People everywhere are talking about Jesus, sharing prayers, and reading the (digital) Bible on Macs, iPods, iPhone, and iPads. That is a reason to praise God!!

Moving Analysis

Although, it doesn’t look all organized yet, we are in our new place. Officially, we have about one car-load of stuff to still bring over, but we are practically done.

For those keeping track, yes, this is my seventh move in seven years. I have learned a lot over those seven moves. One thing is that I strongly dislike moving stuff. Every time I pack up, I am reminded of all the material things we accumulate over time. Sure, I like my video games, books, and movies, but I do not like moving the boxes. I do like that our digital world is helping us not amass as many packaged discs or books, but I still have all the ones from before. On top of that, I start to think about how much of it I really NEED in my life. Could I survive with a little less stuff? Yes, I can. And while I try to get rid of much of it as I unload boxes this next week, I wonder if I can bless someone else. Speaking of which, if you are mine or Yvette’s size, we might have some clothes for you soon.

Aside from all of the philosophical side of moving, we would like to extend (again) an invitation to come see our place and hang out for a bit. This goes for everyone, but especially those friends and family who are many many miles away. Let me know when we can make this happen! We would love to show you around and give you a sneak peak at what God is doing in this part of the country!!